Vie Chaotique is not just about style, we are also about substance. I usually try to keep my content light. But humor me as I would like to get on my soapbox. I promise I won't make a habit of it.
Please remember to shop your independents! It's critical! Your crafters, your artists, your small shop proprietors, your local restaurateurs all need you! Maybe that hammer at your local hardware costs a couple of bucks more but there's good reason. Small business has overhead, often much more so than the big guys. Usually independents offer high level of service, are trained and care about their product and how it was manufactured, our employee, and our customer. We could offer mediocrity but many of us consider what the true cost attached to this is.
I don't know why we perceive that the big box stores offer convenience. We have to search for a parking spot, shop through a lot of "soulless merchandise", hunt down a salesclerk if we have a question. No respect is given to the way the merchandise is displayed. The salesclerk, through no fault of their own, has usually not been trained anyway. More often they are just viewed as cheap labor by their employer who has not invested in them with training and motivation. Next we stand in line to make the purchase. Often to be checked out by a computer not even a person. It's all about the bottom line, but should it be?
The merchandise is soulless. Much of it seems to be there just to turn a big profit. Sub-standard, bland, disposable, some of it even hazardous to our health and the earth. I now buy thinking: "Is this going to wind up in a landfill, or is it going to grace my and my customers' homes for many years to come."
I am not in business for completely altruistic reasons. Independents all want to make a profit to sustain a quality life and stay in business. The products I carry are of a good quality and will stand the test of time, without victimizing anyone.
We lived in Europe for several years where the majority of shops were boutiques and I started to develop relationships with shopkeeps. Upon returning to the US I have been speaking with many independents and we all share something in common.
Believe me most of us are not in this to run to the bank. It's a labor of love. It's a romance with finding high quality, thoughtful products. As a merchant you are proud enough of your product to create a warm environment to display and sell it. You stake your reputation on it. I want you to buy something that you are so thrilled with my service and my quality that you tell your friends and even more importantly that you return to do business with me.
Cheap products have huge hidden price tags. Please think about this as you spend your hard earned dollars. Having less is truly more. Quality not quantity. If you don't realize it think about the meaningless clutter we accumulate. The mom and pop cannot go the way of the dinosaur. Small business is what is going to help our economy get back on its feet. Not only that but it conserves individuality which is what is so great about the US in the first place.
Allow small merchants to continue to offer you both material goods to delight your senses and eye candy to tickle your imagination and your intellect.












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